Turning 30 is a significant milestone for many people, often marked by a milestone party.

I weighed this up heavily – I began planning a massive party last year and tossed up the decision for ages. I wanted all eyes on me and to celebrate all my achievements but mainly I wanted to celebrate myself and plan an evet for me as opposed to someone else for a change. Earlier this year that changed!

A busy year of being a business owner, having surgery, some other personal matters I decided I no longer wanted this event nor could I afford it. And the entire planning process was giving me anxiety. I know what you’re thinking – “Amie you’re an event planner, how could you possibly get anxiety over planning a simple event like a 30th when you plan much larger and more important events on the regular?” Trust me it’s so different when it’s your own and this is the reason people hire me in the first place, to avoid this feeling.

I realised I was not alone – as I approach 30 I noticed a lot of my friends tend not have huge parties and here’s a few reasons someone might fore-go a milestone celebration.

  1. Personal Preferences:
    • Some individuals simply prefer low-key celebrations or intimate gatherings with close friends and family over large parties.
    • As people grow older, priorities may shift, and they may value quality time and meaningful connections over extravagant events.
  2. Financial Considerations:
    • Planning a large party can be expensive, and some individuals may prefer to allocate their resources towards other priorities, such as travel, savings, or investments – (especially with the current cost of living)!
    • Saving money by not hosting a big party can provide financial security or fund experiences that hold more personal value.
  3. Reflective Time:
    • Turning 30 often prompts reflection on one’s accomplishments, goals, and aspirations.
    • Some individuals may choose to spend their 30th birthday in a more introspective manner, engaging in activities such as journaling, meditation, or goal setting. This could also include a replacement “party” like a spa weekend with a few friends instead.
  4. Environmental Impact:
    • Concerns about environmental sustainability may influence individuals to opt for simpler celebrations that generate less waste and carbon footprint.
    • Choosing eco-friendly activities or experiences over large parties can align with values of environmental responsibility and conservation.

I did opt in the end for a lowkey dinner as I realised I do have amazing friends I want to celebrate with – but cutting my guestlist from 100 colleagues and acquaintances to those who I only see and talk to at least once a month – my TRUE FRIENDS really made a difference to my planning anxiety.

Here’s some alternatives if you’re experiencing the same indecision.

While milestone birthdays like turning 30 are often associated with big parties, it’s entirely valid to choose alternative ways to celebrate that align with your personal preferences, values, and priorities. Here’s to 30!

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